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Hobbies & Hyperfixations37 threads

Share your current obsession, creative projects, collections, and deep-dive rabbit holes.

What We Talk About When We Talk About DignityQuinn · 1 reply · 1mo agoMy cat and I have a home — the first night in transitional housingShelter_Cat_M0m · 6 replies · 1mo agoThe floor is lava: which room would you survive in?jellycat_jamie · 7 replies · 2mo ago
Mental Health & Healing54 threads

Late diagnosis, CPTSD, emotional regulation, therapy wins, and the messy work of reparenting yourself.

I Deserve to Be Comfortable: The Radical Act of Admitting You Have Sensory NeedsRosa · 0 replies · 1mo agoThe World Is Too Loud and I Didn't Know That Was a Thing: My First Year Understanding SPDLena · 1 reply · 1mo agoThings I Used to Be Embarrassed About That I Now Love Fiercelyjellycat_jamie · 7 replies · 1mo ago
Online Safety & Harassment33 threads

Buddy-trolling, digital self-defense, doxxing recovery, and building safer online communities.

Building a "Personal Security Protocol" that preserves your joy while keeping bad actors outthe_raccoon_king · 5 replies · 1mo agoRe-learning how to trust a human-moderated space after being burned by open forumsjellycat_jamie · 6 replies · 1mo agoExplaining digital mob harassment to my therapist, who has no idea what "doxxing" meansoOo_AIM_Buddy_oOo · 4 replies · 1mo ago
Sensory & Comfort Corner27 threads

Stimming wins, comfort items, sensory hacks, and the eternal war against fluorescent lighting.

My Dream Themed Restaurant: The Concept, The Menu, The Vibejellycat_jamie · 4 replies · 2mo agoThe Sweater She'll Never Wear Again: On Grief, Sensory Memory, and the Objects We KeepCait · 1 reply · 2mo agoSongs that feel like a hug. Drop them here.jellycat_jamie · 10 replies · 2mo ago
The Hangout38 threads

Casual chat, introductions, and anything that doesn't fit elsewhere. Pull up a beanbag.

The Superiority of the Little Snack: An Ode to Goldfish Crackers and Friendsjellycat_jamie · 12 replies · 1mo agoWhat does 'home' mean to you? (a reflection thread after six months housed)4_Walls_and_a_Key · 7 replies · 1mo agoWords I Mispronounce on Purpose: A Linguistic Crime Spreejellycat_jamie · 5 replies · 1mo ago
The Playground28 threads

Lighthearted, playful, creative fun. Short check-ins, silly prompts, comfort-item show-and-tell, and zero-pressure micro-posts. Come play!

I bought my first LEGO set in 35 years and I'm not embarrassed anymorelatebl00mer_ben · 9 replies · 2mo agoWhat if we did a forum game night? (brainstorming thread)dic3_dopam1n3 · 7 replies · 2mo agoI Built My Own Fidget Toy and It Changed Everything: On Tactile Customization and Knowing What You NeedDev · 1 reply · 3mo ago
Where We Land44 threads

Housing, employment, care, and the messy business of building a life that fits.

Trans childhood grief and age regression — why do transphobes weaponize our healing?oOo_PaperHearts_oOo · 6 replies · 2mo agoUnapologetic softness in a world that punishes it — am I brave or just too autistic to hide?jellycat_jamie · 6 replies · 2mo agoAdvocating for myself in the ER when I'm selectively mute-_-\_HollowInside_-\_- · 4 replies · 3mo ago
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I bought my first LEGO set in 35 years and I'm not embarrassed anymorelatebl00mer_ben · 9 replies · 2mo ago
What if we did a forum game night? (brainstorming thread)dic3_dopam1n3 · 7 replies · 2mo ago
I Built My Own Fidget Toy and It Changed Everything: On Tactile Customization and Knowing What You NeedDev · 1 reply · 3mo ago
Today's magnet fishing finds: a bicycle, three fishing lures, and something I can't identifymagn3t_matt · 7 replies · 5mo ago
Does anyone else have a "safe" movie they've seen 50+ times?glitterglue · 17 replies · 5mo ago
How I started worldbuilding: one continent, one map, one question at a timemaps_n_marg1ns · 7 replies · 6mo ago
The "I'm glad I found this place" threadSoftSkyMarin · 32 replies · 6mo ago
Cast iron restoration: before and after of a 1920s Griswold I found at a flea marketcolby76 · 6 replies · 6mo ago
What's the kindest thing someone's ever said to you about your neurodivergence?plushie_protector · 26 replies · 6mo ago
Just bought supplies for a new hobby: the thrilling pre-abandonment phaseh0bby_grav3yard · 6 replies · 7mo ago
What's your "I know this is weird but it works" coping strategy?overstimulated_owl · 26 replies · 7mo ago
Tell me about your special interest (no judgment, just love)neuron_noodle · 30 replies · 7mo ago
Finished my GBA build — before and after (a text description since, you know, text-only)retr0_phantom · 6 replies · 7mo ago
Imposter syndrome in ND spaces — who else feels "not autistic enough"?jellycat_jamie · 19 replies · 7mo ago
I cried at work today and I'm so embarrassedcrayon_cryptid · 23 replies · 7mo ago
Gertrude update: she tripled and I made my first successful boule!S0urd0ughStar · 6 replies · 8mo ago
Fountain pens for focus: how a simple tool changed my writing practicegreen_typewriter · 6 replies · 8mo ago
Let's talk about "high functioning" and why it's a lieneuron_noodle · 22 replies · 8mo ago
The ultimate comfort media thread — drop your go-to rewatchesplushie_protector · 33 replies · 8mo ago
The "I'm not ignoring you, I just have no social battery" support groupnoodle_arms · 26 replies · 8mo ago
Shoebox diorama update: the abandoned library is getting shelves!glue-gun-g0bl1n · 6 replies · 8mo ago
What's your current hyperfixation? (December 2025 edition)P1xelPlanner · 6 replies · 8mo ago
Welcome to The Unadulting Society — we're live!M0ssw0rk · 6 replies · 8mo ago
Welcome to The Unadulting Society — we're live!M0ssw0rk · 7 replies · 8mo ago
Your inner child wants you to do one nice thing for yourself today. What is it?marzipan_dreams · 32 replies · 9mo ago
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I bought my first LEGO set in 35 years and I'm not embarrassed anymorelatebl00mer_ben9Jul 10, 2026
What if we did a forum game night? (brainstorming thread)dic3_dopam1n37Jun 18, 2026
I Built My Own Fidget Toy and It Changed Everything: On Tactile Customization and Knowing What You NeedCh0re_Ec0n0my1Jun 8, 2026
Today's magnet fishing finds: a bicycle, three fishing lures, and something I can't identifymagn3t_matt7Mar 22, 2026
Does anyone else have a "safe" movie they've seen 50+ times?glitterglue17Mar 15, 2026
How I started worldbuilding: one continent, one map, one question at a timemaps_n_marg1ns7Mar 5, 2026
The "I'm glad I found this place" threadsoftskymarin [admin]32Feb 16, 2026
Cast iron restoration: before and after of a 1920s Griswold I found at a flea marketcolby766Feb 14, 2026
What's the kindest thing someone's ever said to you about your neurodivergence?plushieprotector26Feb 11, 2026
Just bought supplies for a new hobby: the thrilling pre-abandonment phaseh0bby_grav3yard6Feb 8, 2026
What's your "I know this is weird but it works" coping strategy?overstimulatedowl26Jan 27, 2026
Tell me about your special interest (no judgment, just love)neuronnoodle30Jan 22, 2026
Finished my GBA build — before and after (a text description since, you know, text-only)retr0_phantom6Jan 18, 2026
Imposter syndrome in ND spaces — who else feels "not autistic enough"?jellycatjamie19Jan 17, 2026
I cried at work today and I'm so embarrassedcrayoncryptid23Jan 14, 2026
Gertrude update: she tripled and I made my first successful boule!s0urd0ugh_star6Jan 12, 2026
Fountain pens for focus: how a simple tool changed my writing practicegreen_typewriter6Jan 5, 2026
Let's talk about "high functioning" and why it's a lieneuronnoodle22Jan 4, 2026
The ultimate comfort media thread — drop your go-to rewatchesplushieprotector33Jan 1, 2026
The "I'm not ignoring you, I just have no social battery" support groupnoodlearms26Dec 24, 2025
Shoebox diorama update: the abandoned library is getting shelves!glue_gun_g0bl1n6Dec 20, 2025
What's your current hyperfixation? (December 2025 edition)p1xel_planner [admin]6Dec 16, 2025
Welcome to The Unadulting Society — we're live!m0ssw0rk [admin]6Dec 15, 2025
Welcome to The Unadulting Society — we're live!m0ssw0rk [admin]7Dec 15, 2025
Your inner child wants you to do one nice thing for yourself today. What is it?marzipandreams32Dec 1, 2025

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