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Unlearning the "manipulative" label I was given for having needs recovering_parent_ified · 5 replies · 6mo ago
Lighting is EVERYTHING: fairy lights, LED strips, and making a sad room magical P0rch_L1ght_0n · 9 replies · 6mo ago
How I started worldbuilding: one continent, one map, one question at a time maps_n_marg1ns · 7 replies · 6mo ago
Show and tell: what's on your desk/bed/coffee table RIGHT NOW? jellycat_jamie · 10 replies · 6mo ago
Filling the emptiness without destroying myself in the process oOo_MelancholyMoon_oOo · 3 replies · 6mo ago
The Weight of Safety: What My Weighted Blanket Taught Me About My Nervous System Sam · 1 reply · 6mo ago
I have my own apartment and I don't know how to do anything — help? keys_on_the_counter · 8 replies · 6mo ago
The paradox of fearing abandonment but also needing total solitude for days x3_ChaiLatte_x3 · 4 replies · 6mo ago
Toddler Logic, Adult Budget: The Absurd Decisions I Stand By jellycat_jamie · 6 replies · 6mo ago
Favorite Person dynamics and learning to build a wider support net ghostedmyself · 8 replies · 6mo ago
My Pet's Sixty-Second Monologue: The Rant I Imagine Every Day jellycat_jamie · 6 replies · 6mo ago
I'm terrified that I'm "too intense" for anyone to actually love long-term tentative_fern · 5 replies · 6mo ago
Is it splitting, or am I just in sensory overload and can't access nuance? overstimulated_owl · 7 replies · 6mo ago
Rejection sensitivity feels like being punched in the chest, and I'm so tired recovering_parent_ified · 4 replies · 6mo ago
The "cozy" debate: what item makes you feel the most instantly comforted? jellycat_jamie · 12 replies · 6mo ago
My therapist says I'm not BPD — she says I'm autistic with CPTSD, and I don't know what to do with that xX_SoftVelvet_Xx · 8 replies · 6mo ago
The "I'm glad I found this place" thread SoftSkyMarin · 32 replies · 6mo ago
If you could design a "neurodivergent-friendly" world, what would you change? neuron_noodle · 28 replies · 6mo ago
Cast iron restoration: before and after of a 1920s Griswold I found at a flea market colby76 · 6 replies · 6mo ago
Your Body Resigns Before You Do: Recognizing Burnout When You Can't Feel Your Hands Mari · 1 reply · 7mo ago
What's the kindest thing someone's ever said to you about your neurodivergence? plushie_protector · 26 replies · 7mo ago
My Most Gloriously Unnecessary Impulse Purchase: A Confessional jellycat_jamie · 4 replies · 7mo ago
What it's actually like to live in a group home (the part nobody talks about) Gr0up_H0me_Gh0st · 6 replies · 7mo ago
The Secret Backstories of Our Stuffed Animals (Yes, Yours Has One Too) jellycat_jamie · 11 replies · 7mo ago
I'm 29 and I Sleep with a Stuffed Animal: A Meditation on Emotional Support Objects and Shame Quinn · 1 reply · 7mo ago
Thread Author Replies Last Post Unlearning the "manipulative" label I was given for having needs recoveringparentified 5 Mar 6, 2026 Lighting is EVERYTHING: fairy lights, LED strips, and making a sad room magical p0rch_l1ght_0n 9 Mar 5, 2026 How I started worldbuilding: one continent, one map, one question at a time maps_n_marg1ns 7 Mar 5, 2026 Show and tell: what's on your desk/bed/coffee table RIGHT NOW? jellycatjamie 10 Mar 5, 2026 Filling the emptiness without destroying myself in the process ooo_melancholymoon_ooo 3 Mar 3, 2026 The Weight of Safety: What My Weighted Blanket Taught Me About My Nervous System D00r_Has_A_L0ck 1 Mar 2, 2026 I have my own apartment and I don't know how to do anything — help? keys_on_the_counter 8 Mar 1, 2026 The paradox of fearing abandonment but also needing total solitude for days x3_chailatte_x3 4 Feb 28, 2026 Toddler Logic, Adult Budget: The Absurd Decisions I Stand By jellycatjamie 6 Feb 28, 2026 Favorite Person dynamics and learning to build a wider support net ghostedmyself 8 Feb 27, 2026 My Pet's Sixty-Second Monologue: The Rant I Imagine Every Day jellycatjamie 6 Feb 26, 2026 I'm terrified that I'm "too intense" for anyone to actually love long-term tentativefern 5 Feb 24, 2026 Is it splitting, or am I just in sensory overload and can't access nuance? overstimulatedowl 7 Feb 21, 2026 Rejection sensitivity feels like being punched in the chest, and I'm so tired recoveringparentified 4 Feb 20, 2026 The "cozy" debate: what item makes you feel the most instantly comforted? jellycatjamie 12 Feb 20, 2026 My therapist says I'm not BPD — she says I'm autistic with CPTSD, and I don't know what to do with that xx_softvelvet_xx 8 Feb 19, 2026 The "I'm glad I found this place" thread softskymarin [admin] 32 Feb 16, 2026 If you could design a "neurodivergent-friendly" world, what would you change? neuronnoodle 28 Feb 14, 2026 Cast iron restoration: before and after of a 1920s Griswold I found at a flea market colby76 6 Feb 14, 2026 Your Body Resigns Before You Do: Recognizing Burnout When You Can't Feel Your Hands S0il_and_Surrender 1 Feb 12, 2026 What's the kindest thing someone's ever said to you about your neurodivergence? plushieprotector 26 Feb 11, 2026 My Most Gloriously Unnecessary Impulse Purchase: A Confessional jellycatjamie 4 Feb 10, 2026 What it's actually like to live in a group home (the part nobody talks about) gr0up_h0me_gh0st 6 Feb 10, 2026 The Secret Backstories of Our Stuffed Animals (Yes, Yours Has One Too) jellycatjamie 11 Feb 10, 2026 I'm 29 and I Sleep with a Stuffed Animal: A Meditation on Emotional Support Objects and Shame En0ugh_Already 1 Feb 9, 2026
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